I haven't updated this blog in a while, mostly because I am taking some good advice. Someone I respect once wrote, "Don't post publicly what you have not yet worked out privately." The truth is I've drafted a half a dozen blogs since my last post. Writing give my thoughts some tangibility and helps me process. But everything I've written has been missing a conclusion. Right now Shandy and I both feel like we are coming to the edge of something, but we just aren't quite sure what. We feel like it is almost time to come out of the cocoon we've wrapped ourselves in for the last six months, but we both feel like there is one more change that needs to happen, we just aren't exactly sure what it is...
So we wait, resting in the quiet of this season, and prepare to move when God moves.
With that said, here are some updates since my last post:
For most of our marriage Shandy and I have tried to keep a weekly date night. Due to work schedules, and having a kid in school the weekly thing hasn't happened lately, but we did get away for her birthday last month, and we've had a few dates recently that we've been able to make the most of. We are finding that, because we aren't dating as often, we are having much deeper conversation when we do. Lately we've been dreaming about the future, and trying to look at the things God has done in and through us in the past to help us plan the next steps.
Most of those dates have come spur of the moment, courtesy of our housemates. We have quickly become addicted to living in community, especially to living in community with the Booker clan. We may be sharing our place to live with them, but we often feel indebted to them for the kindness they show. Shandy and I also wonder if Amy has superpowers, because she can single-handedly watch all 6 kids (her 4 and our 2) and still have the house sparkling when we get back, often while managing to squeeze in a blog post of her own or baking something yummy...
Amy ends up watching all of the kids because her husband Kevin and I have been joining a group of guys for a weekly night of basketball, while Shandy works. For about 2 hours we play a half dozen pick up games with a wide variety of characters who posses a wide variety of skill levels. The first few weeks I was pretty much a warm body, but I am slowly remembering how to play and it has become a highlight of my week. The games take place at a gym about 20 minutes out of town so we carpool out with 3 other guys. The five of us all attend the church, and I have really enjoyed getting back into a routine of spending time with a group of like minded men.
Speaking of like minded men, another highlight of my week is Thursday night when my friend Lincoln comes over. We talk about the Word, life, parenting, husbanding, and pray for each other, and occasionally play a board game. It has been good to have a brother to hold me accountable during a season of life where I am not fully settled into a church community.
Our boys are going through growth spurts. The height gap between the Hodsdon boys and Booker boys has close significantly in the last 3 months, and while their physical growth has been impressive they've also been growing in other ways. Silas is learning to read, to the point where he reads and writes just because it is fun to use his new skill. Isaac is leaving behind the last bits of toddler-hood and becoming a full fledged kid. His capacity for learning is blossoming as only the mind of a 4 year old can. (I think in heaven we will all be 4 years old... I don't have any theology to back that up, I just think it is the age of human perfection). Both boys have also been growing in their spiritual thinking as well. They are asking good questions, and making connections between life situations and things we read in the Bible. It is a beautiful thing...
