Monday, April 8, 2013

Is Your Church Ready to Reach Unchurched People?


I recently read a blog post by Carey Nieuwhof entitled "9 Signs Your Church is Ready to Reach Unchurched People".  I found the article thought provoking, and I'd love to dialog about what Carey wrote.  My plan is to re-post one of his 'signs' each day for the next 9 days, so that we can talk about them one at a time.  I'll give my thoughts; I am hoping that you'll post your own.

So let's start with the introduction:

Carey writes:  Almost every church I know says they want to reach unchurched people.  But few are actually doing it.  Part of the problem stems from the fact that many churches don’t really understand unchurched people (here’s a post on 15 characteristics of today’s unchurched person).

And part of the problem is that our model of church is designed to reach and helped churched people, not unchurched people. Churches haven’t embraced change deeply enough.
So you can say you want to reach people all day long. You can teach about it every week. But if you haven’t designed your church around ministering to people who don’t go to church, you might as well be preaching that you want to lose weight while eating a triple cheeseburger.
Your model simply doesn’t match your mission.
So how do you know that your church is actually ready to reach unchurched people?


Carey challenges us to make sure that our model matches our mission. Before we can do that we have to know what our mission is. 

I think the popular word for this is "alignment". If the people or more importantly the leadership of a church is out of alignment (ie they don't agree on their mission) then they will never be able to agree on a model.

Carey writes that it is a "problem" that "our model of church is designed to reach and help churched people not unchurched people

But is that really a problem? 

Certainly our mission "as the church" should be to reach those who do not yet believe, but when we come together "for church" is it wrong to focus on helping the people who are actually attending?

I think it comes back to the question of alignment.  Are the members of the church united around one purpose for coming together "for church".

I've heard the following ideas on the mission of the church:
  • "The church is a hospital for sick people."
    • TRANSLATION: The church is where you bring people who need to hear the gospel, and need to be loved.
  • "The church is where the sheep eat."
    • TRANSLATION: Christians meet at church to get equipped to go out and reach the world around them.
  • "The church should be all things to all people so that by all possible means we might save some." 
    • TRANSLATION: We do a little bit of everything so we have something for everyone, because everyone belongs in the body of Christ.
  • "The church is the body of Christ."
    • TRANSLATION: Our mission is to be as united and as Biblical as possible.
  • "The church is the hands and feet of Jesus."
    • TRANSLATION: We specialize in meeting the physical needs of the world around us.

Carey's blog presupposes that we have at our core a desire to reach "unchurched".  And I would champion the argument that you cannot know the God of the Bible, and live a life that disregards those that do not know Him.

But what does it mean to reach them? 

Do we want to take "unchurched people" and make "churched people" or do we want to make "disciples"?
 
Do our churches have a definition of what a disciple looks like?

Are we disciples?  

Do we need God to do something in us before he can do something through us? Or if we unite around a mission of disciple-making, will we find ourselves progressing as disciples? 

What is the purpose of dozens, or hundreds or thousands of us meeting together? 

Should our gatherings be focused on what happens outside the walls of the church, or should what happens outside the walls of the church be focused on what happens in our gatherings?

Should these questions be posed in an "either/or" way or a "both/and" way?

These are the questions I’m hoping you’ll walk through with me.

3 comments:

  1. It's hard to have a dialogue on mega-topics like this because space is limited, subtleties of face-to-face conversation are lost, and the give and take of dialogue is slowed because it is not instantaneous.

    Regardless, here is what traveled through my little brain as I read your post:

    A) The church's main focus should not be to reach the unchurched. That is the job of the individual church-goers. The lost are found generally through relationships out in the world with believers. After all, we want the lost to recognize their need for a repaired relationship with God through Jesus.

    B) One of the church's missions is to gather believers together to worship, be instructed, and be rejuvenated. "Do not forsake the gathering of believers..." not the gathering of unbelievers. Jesus didn't tell the masses to go to temple or be sure you follow the regulations for sacrifice or celeebrate the religious festivals. Jesus called men to Himself - again the relationship piece. Then He asked them to follow Him wherever He went - to "church" and to other places.

    C) I agree that church leadership and the people must be aligned. They must be united. They must also share the same commission (the Great one, that is).

    D) I heartily agree that we do NOT want to make unchurched people churched. We want to make disciples.

    E) Your question "Do we need God to do something in us before he can do something through us?" reminds me of what my Bible study went over last night. In Haggai, the remnant stopped building the temple and built their own homes. When God, through Haggai, reminded them of their mixed up priorities, the leadership and the people did 2 things: 1) they obeyed the voice of God and said we'll get back to rebuilding the temple, and 2) they showed reverence for God. THEN God did 2 things: 1) He said he was with the people and 2) He stirred up their spirits (not the Holy Spirit but their attitudes and enthusiasm for the task) within them. In other words, sometimes God wants us to commit to obey even if we don't feel like it or are afraid or whatever, then He'll do something (stir up our spirits) through us.

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  2. Hey Dan, thanks for the reply. I would love to actually get together for face to face conversation rather than just communicating via blog. I would love to hear more about your thoughts on the purpose of our gatherings. Especially our largest weekly gathering. I agree that we need time to come together as Christians, for rejuvenation and encouragement, for me that doesn't happen in the context of hundreds of people in a room, it happens around a table with a smaller group.

    You point 'A' intrigues me. I agree that evangelism is best done in context of relationship, because God wants a relationship with us. So why do our largest gatherings tend to lack a relational context? Why is our corporate context and mission different from our individual one?

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  3. After rereading my comment, I agree that A) needs more clarification. What I was refering to is the corporate gathering's main focus, not the main focus of the Church (with capital "C" or the church meaning the collective group's main focus). "What is the main focus of the Sunday gathering" is a better way to phrase what I was going for. The main focus of the Sunday gathering (and Wednesday and whatever other night) are those things that I mentioned.

    In Paul's thoughts on tongues and prophesying in 1 Cor 14, he uses language that does not assume the church gathering is peppered with unbeleivers. Certainly they're welcome and encouraged, but "IF an unbeliever comes in..." {capitalization mine}.

    Why do you get up Sunday morning and go to a building week after week with other people? Is it mostly to watch and assist and encourage unbeleivers as they get saved? If so and you came to my church, you'd be frustrated and disappointed. Sure, it happens, but it's not the entire emphasis. The pastor frequently presents the Good News in a way that any unbelievers present might hear the call of God, and we have people at the front of the church ready to pray with unbeleivers (and believers too on other issues), but we are generally there to worship, hear teaching from the Word, and fellowship with others (believers and unbeleivers).

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